▶ Your Answer : I fully disagree with the statement that “If
parents wish to see their children succeed in life, they should set strict
rules for them. There are several reasons and examples as follows.
To begin with, I believe that many children
should get their identity in their childhood. Even though the importance of
getting own identity, there are so many parents that ruin their children’s
identity by controlling and engaging so much in their lives. To be specific, if
parents nurturing children have the control key to children’s life, children would
lose a chance to learn self-confidence and identity as well. For instance, in
my childhood, my parents were very controlling and engaged to my life
especially in education. As I grown up, in deciding my major in university and
something important, I was so frustrated that I couldn’t control and decide
confidently without help from others. Eventually, I was helped from my parents’
advice and relatives’ in deciding my major in the university. If I had not
controlled by my parents, I could have a confidence in my crucial decision.
On top of that, if the parents set strict
rules for children, they could not have a sense of accomplishment as they grown
up. What I mean is that, most of all people enjoy deciding freely and feeling accomplishment
through their own work. When I had to decide and think about my schedule in
marriage, I felt frustration because of not knowing about sense of
accomplishment.
My parents was so engaged in my childhood,
in this reasons, even though after I grown up, I felt anxiety if not asking how
to lead and make the schedule about our marriage. So it was a little bit
regretful to deciding and planning the rituals. If I had not followed by
parents’ leading, I could lead the whole procedure without any help from
parents.
To sum up, I firmly believe that parents do
not need to set strict rules for their children.
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